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emotional abuse during divorce

Emotional Abuse During Your Divorce: The Signs and How the Law Can Help

Divorce can be one of the most stressful experiences an individual will go through in their lifetime. If your partner thinks you are to blame, they may go out of their way to make it even more stressful for you. Other times, your spouse may resort to behaviors which cause you extreme emotional distress. Either ... Read more ...
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DEALING WITH YOUR SPOUSE’S AFFAIR

Most people go into a marriage believing that they would never be the victim of an affair. While for some people, infidelity is not a deal breaker, for others, it can be the cause of an immediate divorce. For certain individuals, they don’t care about reasons or excuses. For them, cheating means divorce. However, if ... Read more ...

SOCIAL MEDIA AND DIVORCE: WHY FACEBOOK IS NOT YOUR FRIEND

Social media and divorce are two aspects that should never be used in conjunction. While some people don’t realize this, posting the details and the issues within your divorce on social media is a really bad idea. Additionally, some people believe that what they post on Facebook will be kept private among their friends but ... Read more ...
how to change a child's last name after divorce

Changing a Child’s Last Name Following a Divorce

While the practice is becoming less common as societal trends shift, one spouse typically takes the last name of the other spouse. Furthermore, when a couple has a child, the individual will typically assume the same last name as the couple. However, if a couple in this situation has a divorce, the question that may ... Read more ...
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Four Behaviors That Predict Divorce

Since each couple’s relationship has a different dynamic, there can be several, if not hundreds, of reasons as to why divorce may occur. However, if your relationship has been on the rocks and you are concerned it is headed towards divorce then there are some telltale signs that may give you an indication on where ... Read more ...
divorce and age

Is Age Related to Divorce?

Statistically speaking, yes, age can play a role in divorce. Though no one plans to eventually get divorced when they get married, there is still a possibility of it happening and certain trends can have an effect on whether or not it occurs. Statistics show that individuals in Generation X (individuals born in the mid-1960s ... Read more ...
What Effect Does Cheating Have on Divorce Judgments

What Effect Does Cheating Have on Divorce Judgments?

Suspecting infidelity in a marriage is an extremely difficult burden on a spouse. But, it is even worse once the unfaithfulness has been proven and the money you had saved together paid for their affair. If you suspect cheating and are considering a divorce, here’s what you need to know about the effect cheating will ... Read more ...
Can Divorce Cause PTSD

Can a Divorce Cause PTSD?

Divorces can take a lot out of a person, both physically and mentally. But, can divorces really cause mental health issues once only thought to occur in warfare? Can a divorce cause PTSD? What is PTSD? PTSD, or post-traumatic stress disorder, is something commonly associated with those who have been to war. It has been ... Read more ...

Sole and Shared Custody

WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SOLE AND SHARED CUSTODY? One of the main challenges of getting a divorce is deciding who will get custody of the children, and when this will occur. A major deciding factor in this decision is whether or not both parents will have custody of the children, or if just one ... Read more ...

What Is The Difference Between Sole and Shared Custody?

  One of the main challenges of getting a divorce is deciding who will get custody of the children, and when this will occur. A major deciding factor in this decision is whether or not both parents will have custody of the children, or if just one parent will handle the responsibility.     As ... Read more ...

Changing a Child’s Last Name Following a Divorce

While the practice is becoming less common as societal trends shift, one spouse typically takes the last name of the other spouse. Furthermore, when a couple has a child, the individual will typically assume the same last name as the couple. However, if a couple in this situation has a divorce, the question that may ... Read more ...
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Emotionally Abused During Your Divorce

Divorce can be one of the most stressful experiences an individual will go through in their lifetime. If your partner thinks you are to blame, they may go out of their way to make it even more stressful for you. Other times, your spouse may resort to behaviors which cause you extreme emotional distress. Either ... Read more ...
Can Socila Security Benefits be Garnished In a Divorce

In a Divorce, Can Social Security Benefits Be Garnished?

If you are divorced, one of the most difficult things to deal with may be money issues. If you have been ordered to pay alimony or another form of spousal support, but fall short on payments, you may be subject to garnishment of your wages. But what about Social Security, disability, or other benefits? Can ... Read more ...
child custody laws

How Do Child Custody Laws Work When One Parent Moves Abroad

Today, we live in a global society. More and more people are venturing out and living far away from the places of their birth. While this desire to live and work in new, exciting places is great, this may not always be the case, especially when children are involved. How do child custody laws work ... Read more ...
at-fault divorce

Can You File for Divorce Without Valid Reasons?

When one spouse seeks to divorce their partner, this is what is referred to as an “at-fault” divorce. At-fault divorces differ from “no-fault” divorces in that the two parties do not agree the marriage should be dissolved. No-fault divorces are simply a statement that the marriage has fallen apart and neither spouse blames the other ... Read more ...
Politics and Divorce

Politics and Divorce: Don’t Let Party Affiliation Divide Your Family

Politics is a dangerous game to play. It can divide siblings, parents and children, and even husbands and wives. Here’s what you need to know about politics and divorce. AGREE TO DISAGREE Agreeing to disagree is a simple sentiment that can be difficult to follow through with. If you are a staunch Democrat, for example, you ... Read more ...
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Should I Hire a Forensic Accountant?

Divorces are never easy. This is especially true if there are huge sums of money involved. But, what can you do if you suspect your ex is attempting to hide assets from the court in an attempt to keep them safe from division? Or, what if you want to understand what will be a fair ... Read more ...
self-care and divorce

Why Practicing Self-Care is Essential During a Divorce

Divorce can be devastating. After years of marriage, you may suddenly find yourself thrust into a new reality which may seem alien.  Because of the messy and stressful nature of divorce, it is essential that you practice self-care. What is “self-care?” simply put, self-care is taking care of yourself. Pretty straightforward, right? It can be ... Read more ...
domestic violence and divorce

How Domestic Abuse Can Affect Divorce Proceedings

Domestic abuse is one of the worst things that can happen in any relationship. From physical violence to emotional blackmail, abuse takes on many forms – all of them torturous. When abuse is present, divorce may seem like the best avenue of escape. But, how can domestic abuse affect divorce proceedings? Domestic Abuse Comes in ... Read more ...
palimony

What is Palimony?

When it comes to legal terms, there can be an awful lot of confusion. This is most certainly the case when it comes to things such as palimony. It sure sounds like alimony, but can it really be that simple? At the Law Offices of Brian D. Perskin & Associates, we want all of our ... Read more ...
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Tips to Have an Amicable Divorce

Divorce is never fun. But that doesn’t mean it has to be nasty and bitter. Here are some helpful tips for making your divorce amicable. Keep an Eye Towards the Future When it comes to divorce, it is all too easy to fall into the trap of constantly digging up the past. It may seem ... Read more ...
student loans and divorce

Student Loans and Divorce: Why Debt is Destroying Millennial Marriages

Getting married and starting a life together is something many couples look forward to.  But if you are a millennial carrying burdensome student loan debt, marriage can quickly turn sour. Here’s everything thing you need to know about debt and divorce: why student loans are destroying millennial marriages. The Realities of Student Debt and Marriage ... Read more ...
how to be a Better Parent After a Divorce

Ways to be a Better Parent After Divorce

Divorce has lasting effects on everyone associated with it. It isn’t just the spouses who suffer, it’s also incredibly hard on children. To them, their whole world is collapsing. Here are a few key ways to be a better parent after a divorce. Be a Better Co-Parent While you and your ex might have broken ... Read more ...
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What Happens to Pets After a Divorce?

Divorce isn’t easy for anybody. It can tear apart families and leave people – especially children, emotionally traumatized. Divorce also can have an adverse effect on the animals we love and treat as part of our family. But, after the dust settles, where do they go? What happens to pets after divorce? Pets and Divorce ... Read more ...
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Common Terms in Divorce You Need to Know

Divorce can be confusing. This is especially true in the event of a contested divorce, where assets, alimony, and other considerations can lead to headaches and endless rounds of legal wrangling. What, though, can you expect after the divorce is settled? Here are some of the more common terms of divorce settlements that you need ... Read more ...
Tips for Surviving the Holidays during divorce

Tips for Surviving the Holidays during Divorce

The holiday season is usually a time reserved for celebrations with friends and family, but when you’re going through a divorce, it can feel anything but cheery. From co-parenting issues to questions from nosy relatives, divorce during the holidays can be difficult to navigate. To help you make the most of the season, here are ... Read more ...
Bird's Nest Co-Parenting

Bird’s Nest Co-Parenting in New York Divorce Cases

A number of divorced parents are drifting away from traditional custody and co-parenting arrangements. Instead, they are opting for alternative parenting methods. One non-traditional form of co-parenting is referred to as the Bird’s Nest method. What is bird’s nest co-parenting, and is it right for your family? What is Bird’s Nest Co-Parenting? Bird’s nest co-parenting ... Read more ...
Are Witnesses Allowed in Divorce Hearings

Are Witnesses Allowed in Divorce Hearings?

When going through a divorce, there are countless things to make you worry. From assets and alimony to your future and the rights of your children, it may all seem overwhelming. What do you do, however, if you think someone else may be able to provide crucial insight into your marriage and may help you ... Read more ...
Save Money during divorce

Top 5 Money Saving Divorce Tips

New York City is expensive. Between paying your rent or a mortgage, refilling your Metrocard, and enjoying all that our great city has to offer, you may feel a little strapped for cash. Don’t let your financial worries prevent you from filing a case. Just follow these 5 tips from Brian D. Perskin & Associates P.C., ... Read more ...
3 Reasons It’s Important to Be Active in a Divorce

3 Reasons Why It’s Important to Be Active in a Divorce

Divorce is not fun – it’s that simple. It may seem like a good idea to switch off and not take an active role in your divorce proceedings due to the stresses that it may cause. This, however, is not a great idea for many reasons. Here are three reasons why it’s important to be ... Read more ...
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